Why I Don’t Do Verse

I love to write. I have said it before, so I will spare you the details. If I explain how I feel about writing one more time, people may accuse me of being some kind of automated message on a customer service phone line. You know the ones where you are on hold for 60+ minutes. (Feel free to check out any of my other blog posts on writing in case you have been spared and this is new information.) I don’t like to limit myself to a single form of writing. I like writing editorials, journaling, writing memoirs, personal essays, fiction (both novels and short stories), and even screenwriting and television writing (I do consider them to be different because of the serial elements involved with television writing). You’ll notice I didn’t list poetry. I do write poetry, but I don’t like to.

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For the past three years, whenever I write poetry it is because of one of the following reasons.

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Introverted Disguises

I was pondering the other day on what it means to be an introvert and how, like people, they present in many forms. Take my husband and me for instance; we are both introverts, but what that means to us and how we show it are as different as we are in habits.

Most people are surprised when they find out I am an introvert (though with my increasing deafness that may be less true than it was even a year ago). That is because many things are important to me that require me to act like an extrovert. I am an INFJ (the rarest of all types, thank you very much). I always have been since the first time I took the test in high school to the present day (the last time I took the test was last month). Social activism is incredibly important to me. Nothing matters more to me than justice and fairness (which is funny since the world is neither, and I am fully aware of that fact).

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Confessions Of A Bookaholic: Noteworthy Nonfiction For March 2014

I am in love with books and writing and words. For my first list of noteworthy nonfiction I have selected two of the most powerful nonfiction books I have read. One has words that will shake you down to your core, making you feel every emotion in the human spectrum, and captivating you with the power (and truth) of its prose. The other is a heart wrenching story of survival that is both inspiring and a nonstop kick in the gut. Next time I promise to make things a little lighter. 😉

“Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice On Love And Life From Dear Sugar”
by Cheryl Strayed (published July 10, 2012)  five_star.fw

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“Tiny Beautiful Things” by Cheryl Strayed is a collection of letters and responses from her column Dear Sugar. The Dear Sugar column on therumpus.net was answered by Strayed anonymously from 2010 until after she published her memoir “Wild” (another title to look for on one of my future lists). While it is a collection of columns, it reads more like a collection of essays that beautifully paint the picture of the human condition.

Strayed is one of my favorite writers (another one of my writer’s crushes) and this book demonstrates why. Her prose is moving, funny and fearless. She strips away any preconceived notions and rather than trying to be PC or guarded, she bares her own relevant life experiences in much of her advice. Topics from this book cover everything from fear, abuse, addiction, grief, envy, relationship advice, and more philosophical matters.

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Confessions Of A Bookaholic: Noteworthy Fiction For March 2014

I am excited to share my first edition of noteworthy fiction with everyone. In a past blog comment I said I would share five titles of fiction and five titles of nonfiction every month. Scratch that. I don’t want to exhaust my list and really only want to share books that I feel are truly worth noting, so I am switching it up to four titles of fiction and another four for nonfiction every month. Since I was inspired a tad late for March, March only has two titles of each. March’s noteworthy nonfiction will be posted in the next few days. April’s lists (both fiction and nonfiction) will be posted at the end of this month.

When I do these lists they may not be the most current books. My own tastes are usually more contemporary, but I am about eight weeks behind (on average) in reading my subscriptions or magazines, which is where a lot of the books I read come from (reviews are wonderful things). I also intend to include past favorites or books that have stuck with me. (I like to mix it up.) So, without further ado, here is this bookaholic’s very first list of noteworthy fiction!

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The Picture Of A ‘Bad Writing Day’

I try to be an upbeat person in general. When it comes to working on my manuscript, I set goals and do not let obstacles deter me. Quite the opposite, they usually make me push harder, though not always right away. There are days when I accomplish so much I feel like an undiscovered prodigy and other days when I feel so amateurish that I doubt I could pass as a reading teacher for grade-schoolers. I am tired of my manuscript. I want it to go away, I need it to be finished because the more I work on it the more I want to scream, burn it up, and make it suffer. Healthy, right?

Blog 13 Pic 1Today was ‘I want to bang my head against my desk’ (any hard surface will do), gorge on chocolate, flip the bird to the world and otherwise retire. It was THAT kind of day. After fourteen months of aguishly working away at my manuscript, someone who saw a small fraction of it gave me pause. She told me it was not where I thought it was and I was not ready to make any cuts. It was funny, since cutting (aside from missing elements and polishing, etc.) has been one of the things I have focused most on. It needs to be 200,000 words shorter than what it originally was – of course I am focused on cutting!

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