Confessions Of A Bookaholic: Guilty Pleasure Edition #7 – Sweet Valley High Books 14-18

It is that time again… Just like Sunday’s Fear Street list, this list of Sweet Valley books does not quite live up to the previous list of Sweet Valley books, but that is just because last week’s list was absolutely fabulous. I know I am being repeatey, but this warning will always accompany a Sweet Valley book blog: because of the nature of this series, this blog does contain spoilers. While I don’t delve into too much detail, you will at least get the ‘what’ and depending on the book sometimes the ‘who’ and ‘why’. (I try my best to always leave out the ‘how’.) So, if you intend to read these books yourself, read this blog at your own risk. 😉

“Deceptions”
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Sweet Valley Scale: 3.5 out of 5 Twins
Pick Of The Bunch Rating: Fifth Place

Elizabeth Wakefield is shocked when Nicholas Morrow asks her out. Nicholas is incredibly wealthy and extremely handsome. Even though Elizabeth would never cheat on her boyfriend, Todd Wilkins, Nicholas convinces her to go out with him, just once. To complicate matters, Elizabeth’s scheming sister, Jessica, has decided that Nicholas is the boy that she wants. Suddenly, he is the only thing on Jessica’s mind. Elizabeth is terrified to think what will happen if Todd or Jessica finds out about her date with Nicholas. But who can keep a secret from Jessica Wakefield?

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Making Happy Holiday Traditions For Your Future Children (That Was My Easter)

The holidays are a time for family, but for my husband and me, we are the only family we have to spend them with. His family is on the other side of the country and my biological family is (for the most part) best kept at a distance. It is no secret that we both want to have kids, we have had those talks, made those plans and tried to figure out budgets, but when having kids biologically would cost us six figures without a guarantee of success (we are incapable of having children the good old-fashioned way) or between $30,000 and $40,000 to adopt, the trick is not about figuring out how to afford children (we have that covered) but figuring out how to afford to have children. I have had baby fever for awhile, years actually, and every time we see kids it only reminds me of how much I long to have my own. Even when there are many of them and they are acting like complete terrors (the terrible twos are a real thing, yo) the only thing I think is, “God, I want kids.” I feel my biological clock, even if it is biology’s fault I can’t have kids who are biologically mine. (For me, I don’t care; biology or not, my children will be my children.)

But, this year, I have started something different when it comes to the holidays. I am doing the holidays just like I intend to do them, when we have kids. My husband says to me often, “You’re going to be such a great mom.” It is so bittersweet to hear and finally just after Thanksgiving last year I decided, why wait? You see, I have all of these holidays traditions I invented (I am sure other people have done them, but they are not passed down to me from someone else) that I know I want to do with my own children. For Christmas, the tradition I began with my husband was placing a stuffed animal (that would mean something to him) in his arms as he slept, so he would wake up to it the next day. And I did. (Thank goodness he is such a heavy sleeper!) I always thought ‘Santa’ would do this for our kids. Each stuffed animal would mean something special to the child in question.

Roy's Stuffed Animal - Christmas 2013

Roy’s Stuffed Animal – Christmas 2013

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Confessions Of A Bookaholic: Guilty Pleasure Edition #6 – Fear Street Books 14-18

Last week’s Fear Street list was a tough act to follow, but this is list is still a decent effort. There is one total hit, a miss and three solid books that fall in between. This list also features the second Super Chiller of the series. Read on, if you dare…  😉

“The Secret Bedroom”
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Fear Street Scale: 3.5 out of 5 Fears
Pick Of The Bunch Rating: Fifth Place

Lea Carson can’t believe it when her family moves into an old, creepy house on Fear Street. The creepiest part of the house by far is the secret room in the attic. The room has been locked for more than a hundred years. The story goes that a murder was committed in that room and it has been boarded up ever since. Lea knows she should stay away, but she keeps hearing footsteps inside the secret room – and voices. Someone (or something) is waiting for Lea in there. It knows she can’t resist opening the door…

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Finding The Perfect Editor For Your Baby (Book)

I feel that as a professional freelance editor I should have worlds of wisdom on this topic: finding the right editor for your book. But I don’t. It is something I am trying to navigate myself as we speak. The reason is because this is not just about finding a good editor, or even a great editor. It isn’t even about finding an editor that YOU will work well with. While these things are all necessary, the big question is who is the right editor for your baby/book? They are interchangeable to me, because my book is my baby. I went through a long and painful birthing process. And now I need to find that special ONE person who will take what I have and shape it into something I can sell (I have obviously moved away from the baby analogy, sorry for the lack of transition).

A person can be an amazing editor, an even better writer and someone you know and respect or someone you instantly gel with on a personal level, but it doesn’t make them the right editor for your book. I have found this out the hard way, both as a writer and an editor. For anyone who has ever looked through agent directories, they will find that most helpful ones include what an agent likes, dislikes and won’t touch. Freelance editors (not those who work for publishing houses) are not officially like this, in my experience. This is our job – we’re professionals and unless my colleagues are independently wealthy, you don’t turn down work simply because of the subject matter (hate-propaganda and other extreme examples are not to be considered in this, but in general, this is the rule). We need to put food in our mouths, have a mortgage or rent and some of us have families to provide for. I have my favorites (mystery; thriller; LGBT themed books; women’s lit; self-help books, particularly those that have a humorous tone or are about achieving happiness or interpersonal relationships; EXCELLENT coming-of-age and contemporary fiction; and memoirs, particularly those that inspire, and are medical memoirs, memoirs of love and loss or about overcoming overwhelming obstacles). And I have my least favorites including stream-of-consciousness (I have tried to love this, I want to, but I don’t like reading it, so why would I want to work on it), books that are all tell and no show, and super religious fiction as well as super conservative or narrow nonfiction with an agenda. (I once had to work on a stream-of-consciousness memoir that really just a woman on a soapbox bashing men, blacks, Jews and the gays. I suffered through 127 single-spaced pages and I promised myself, never again.)

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Why I Am Thankful (Sort Of?) For This Blasted Cold

I have a cold or some type of bug. Yesterday it snuck up on me right after lunch and today there is no questioning what this is. My first thought is, “I don’t want to be sick. Please don’t be sick.” My second thought was, “I haven’t been sick since last April, maybe I should want this to be something, but small – let’s keep it small.” And my third thought was, “Please, do not let this end in shunt surgery.”

No one likes being sick, but sometimes I am not sure if I should root for my immune system to spare me from the unpleasant experience or actually hope that every now and then I come down with something. For the first 24 years of my life I rarely got sick. In fact, I can count the number of times I had something in my first two decades and not run out of fingers (and that includes small colds). I thought it was the universe’s way of evening out what my body had to deal with. Dozens of brain surgeries, multiple heart surgeries, and even more fractures due to a brittle bone disease (Osteo Genesis Imperfecta) meant I was a frequent flier at the hospital. So, when it came to never getting sick, why not?

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