The Response To My Open Letter To AWP, From AWP

Two weeks ago I wrote an open letter to the AWP (The Association of Writers and Writing Programs) about my experience at their conference earlier this year and a response to recent goings-on that has cast a harsh (yet necessary) look at the organization, its conference and how it operates. (For a summary of what happened read my open letter and for a post responding to what happened recently as well as a treasure trove of links click here.)

I emailed a copy of the letter to the Executive Board of Trustees. Writing the letter was not about ranting or discussing a “hot topic” that week – it was about opening (or participating in) a dialogue that needed to take place. I felt like a lot of people were being silent on the issues brought up within the last month – the Executive Board included. I felt like a lot of the people who weren’t being silent were shouting or even if they weren’t shouting, would come across as shouting. I didn’t want to shout, but I wasn’t going to lead with niceties and worry about people’s feelings more than worrying about being truthful. Change is hard and the truth can be harsh, and both were needed. Both still are needed.

I emailed the six individuals that I did because they seemed to be the inner sanctum of the organization’s governance. I didn’t want to just reach out to the Chair of the Board, but I also felt like reaching out to every person in the organization’s leadership would be seen as shrill – that’s a couple dozen people after all.

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When You’re In A Writing Rut, Take A Class Or Something

As a working writer, it can be a solitary life. Being a total introvert that works for me. But every now and then it’s good to connect. Lately, I’ve been in… I don’t know. I wouldn’t exactly call it a rut, but it’s not a non-rut either. I wrote like crazy in May and June and even submitted for the first time in my life (two different pieces) by the end of June. And then it was like… I was done.

Yes, July was a busy month, but everyone is busy and time is always an issue, so that can’t be a valid reason for not being productive. Maybe I did so much in June in terms of new writing, brainstorming, revising, critiques and submissions – that I needed a break. No, I might have wanted a break, but I needed to keep up with that momentum. Because truthfully, that’s the pace I should always work at. Regardless of the why, I did not write anything beyond my blogs for the entire month of July. By the third week of August, it was the same story. I hate doing nothing, but between a piece I wrote earlier this year that is taunting me (I have no idea what to do with it – like at all, and until I do it will continue to torture me) and my manuscript stalled-out-possibly-for-the-long-haul, and no looming contest or creative deadlines – I wasn’t working on anything.

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It’s All About The Pumpkin… A Love Letter

It’s that time of year again. Some people dread it, some people love it, but no matter what side you fall on, you know what I’m talking about… Pumpkin is back!

Personally, I love me some pumpkin. I think some people equate the pumpkin craze with other seasonal silliness like breaking out your Christmas lights the day after Halloween. Stores are notoriously awful, getting into Halloween in August, getting into Christmas before Halloween has passed. But to be clear, my love for all things pumpkin is eternal. I wish it wasn’t a seasonal thing, and coffee shops and other places would make it available year round. Pumpkin bread, pumpkin sauce, pumpkin syrup (for all of those pumpkin flavored drinks) – yes please!

The love of pumpkin isn’t just me in this house though. It’s my dog’s go-to whenever she has tummy troubles. She gets a spoonful of pumpkin (real canned pumpkin, not pie filling – know the difference) if she ever is constipated, has the runs or is throwing up. It’s a great fix and the thing we try before we worry and contemplate going to the vet (it’s only failed one time, and in that instance she did need medicine, but the pumpkin didn’t hurt any – it was the vet’s suggestion). While I find it useful to keep my dog’s digestive system in check, it also tastes great so she thinks it’s a treat! Win-win!

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Men Are Stupid and Women Are Ugly: Kim Davis – A Case Study

I’m sure by this point everyone has heard the name: Kim Davis. If you haven’t, here it is in a nutshell: Kim Davis is a county clerk in Kentucky who has a big problem with same-sex marriage. So despite the Supreme Court stating that she had to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples, she has refused. So the people in her county cannot get married unless they go to a neighboring county. The problem is (besides the obvious) this is her job. So, she is getting paid to not do her job because of her own faulty belief system (we’ll get to that in a minute). This has gone on for months, and she has asked different courts, including the U.S. Supreme Court, to “save” her because issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples is violating her religious freedom, protected by the first amendment. Except it really doesn’t (again, get to that in a minute).

Anyways, following the story of Kim Davis, or trying hard to ignore it, I was struck by two things.

1 . This woman is an idiot, but not as big of an idiot as she is a hypocrite. She is all about God, and yet she has been married four times and cheated on some/all of her husbands (see below for an outline or her own martial record). So, wtf?

Kim Marital History 22 . Her appearance is being judged along with her actions, as if her inner ugliness is made evident by her appearance (and what others make of her appearance). But why are we talking about her appearance at all? Why did it come up? Because if it were Ken Davis, we would call him stupid and be done with it.

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A Whole Birthday Week For Me! Sometimes It’s Worth The Wait

My birthday is July 28, but due to a romantic trip I sprung on my husband right before, out-of-town guests and other things we have had to tackle, we actually just celebrated it last week. But it was worth the wait.

My husband decided he didn’t want to give me a day, so he gave me a week! From Sunday to the following Sunday it was one surprise after another. It started with a trip to Evergreen. Roy surprised me with a trip to Evergreen in early 2014, right before our world effectively imploded (at least temporarily) and threw us off for the rest of the year. The trip was magical, and we always planned to go back, it just didn’t happen as soon as we thought.

I was so excited, and genuinely surprised until we were nearly there. As soon as we got into town, we had a late breakfast and then grabbed some coffee at a place I have been craving ever since my first time there! I highly recommend a Cake Batter Latte for any sweet-drink inclined person – so good! We took a scenic drive, hit up some local shops – mostly craft places or stores that supported and sold things by local artists. Then we went to another coffee place (I had two local faves, had to hit them both up) and finished the evening with an amazing dinner at a “splurge” restaurant where I had the bacon-wrapped elk medallions with huckleberry vinaigrette and blue cheese. This was a huge departure from my usual choices of fish or seafood.

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